Wedding stress is undeniably real. There’s no getting around it. Believe me, I’ve been there. Weddings hit many uncomfortable hot button issues, and we’ve all had moments where we just want to kick it all. But you’re planning a wedding, not a funeral or a fundraiser to help your dying child get a new heart. Which is to say that it’s really hard to feel sorry for someone overwhelmed by planning a wedding, and there’s nothing, and I mean nothing, more unattractive than a bride who whines her way through what should be an exciting, happy process. Because in truth you’ve done the truly stressful part already: you’ve survived the dating scene and found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. And you’re stressing over planning the ceremony that will bond the two of you and the wonderful party that will celebrate that bond and perhaps even the fabulous vacation you get to go on when it’s all over? Poor you. I don’t want to get too maudlin here, but my family has been on the losing end of many battles with cancer and maybe thats why I look at weddings as more of a party and a celebration. Because Life should be celebrated everday, dont stress or worry about things life is WAY to short! I have a family member that has been given 2 years to live due to a brain tumor, he celebrates every minute he has left! Just be lucky you are able to plan a wedding and that you have found your soulmate. Sometimes it helps to take a step back and and look at the BIG picture: You’re planning a joyous occasion, and if you’re letting it make you miserable, you’re doing something wrong, its a celebration of love, life & family! So enjoy it damn it!
(Thanks Sulla Tips)
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